and elevation with your love?
You’ve likely read several marriage improvement books and watched countless podcasts episodes... and you've also likely found that the quick tips and blanket advice work for a few weeks before things go back to the way they were.
Which of these sounds most familiar?
You’ve tried "talking things out” over and over again...
But, the conversations just go in circles. Nothing gets resolved and all you end up doing is walking away, feeling defeated and frustrated, once again.
You've attended a few one-off counseling sessions...
Only to realize that being in the 'hot seat', diving into the past for weeks and months, with someone who hasn't been in your shoes, isn't exactly the approach you're looking for.
You've tried getting counsel from other couples you know...
But, because they love you so much but haven't walked in your shoes—they can't help but give you theoretical and biased advice.
You've created plan after plan to follow together...
While it works for a week or two, you find yourselves right back where you started—because there's no one in your corner to hold you accountable of not going back.
You've tried having hard conversations...
But because there's so much hurt from the past that hasn't been aired out and fully healed from, your pain and frustration continues taking over—making moving forward feel impossible.
If any of these resonates with you, it likely means...
You want more intimacy & closeness, better communication & less conflict—a relationship you want to run home to everyday...
But trying so many different things that haven't worked has left you drained and exhausted—you don't even know where to start.
You want to set an example of a Godly union for your children...
But the idea of them repeating what they've been seeing at home doesn't let you sleep.
You know your marriage was meant to be more than just 'healthy'—deep down you know your potential as a couple...
But you've lost sight of the purpose God has for you because you're so far from where you could be, you'd rather avoid feeling disappointed thinking about it.
So, what's the BIG secret?
By now, you've probably thought to yourself...
"What do all these other couples have that we don't?"
Or worse...
"Did I marry the wrong person?"
[You’re not the only one.]
Driving around the house after work just to avoid the tension with your spouse inside...
Scrolling through Reels and Shorts for inspiration to stay in the relationship...
All while posting selfies and pictures of your last date night out...
Hating the fact that you're living in the same house, building your lives separately, drawing further and further apart...
While no one knows (or understands) feeling empty—going to bed night after night, week after week, feeling unfulfilled because the years are flying by.
We wanted so badly to have an intimate and powerful bond—giving our children the best example of a Godly Marriage they'd want to replicate...
But the reality of our relationship, then, wasn't worth replicating.
[X] Avoiding each other around the house for days at a time after an argument.
[X] Not feeling safe enough with each other to be fully open, honest, or real.
[X] Craving a real bond & genuine friendship—but not knowing how to get rid of the tension in the house to experience one.
[X] Having repetitive arguments about the same old problems.
[X] Absolutely hating the example we were giving our children of marriage behind closed doors.
But we went through a powerful journey of deeper discovery that led to a real reconnection, and spiritual growth that changed everything.
We never imagined those years of trials would lead us to a process that takes the guesswork out of…
We didn’t do this by having endless conversations about the past.
We didn't invest any time into learning our communication styles.
We didn't use any surface-level tactics.
For some, fixating on the past 5, 10 years of the relationship helps—but for others, digging further and further into the past, week after week feels more frustrating and agonizing than empowering.
And because our ways of communication were already not working—we realized putting a label on it wouldn't make a difference.
We also found that surface-level tips and tactics help in the moment—but most of the advice our there leads to more transactional relationships not closer, more connected relationships.
The truth is...
Anyone can get motivation our of a marriage sermon, learn more communication skills, or feel a boost after a 3-day marriage conference…
But breaking years of habits, old mindsets, and subconscious cycles requires a well thought out roadmap that takes you through a journey of discovery and transformation through coaching, conversations, and exercises—paired with empowering accountability and measurable growth.
So you don't find yourself scheduling another one-off counseling session after just a few weeks.
The real changes you’re looking for are the results of a transformational experience.
We realized this most when the changes in our relationship had a direct impact on every other area of our lives for the better.
Our relationship changed.
Our work performance improved.
The work we did in ministry began to flourish.
And it became noticeably different—to the point that we somehow kept attracting other couples who also wanted to experience improvement in their own relationships.
Thinking nothing of it…
The little bits and pieces of suggestions we gave made a big impact in other relationships.
[That was just the beginning.]
It wasn't long before we realized what was once our pain later became our purpose.
So we locked in and began to study— taking a much closer and deeper look at the relationships around us at the time, and those we grew up around.
We dove into everything we could about what makes a satisfying relationship and a truly fulfilling marriage.
Taking all possible weighing factors into account (cultural differences, previous relationships, age gaps, older children, involved co-parents, work roles, etc.)...
We hosted live weekly workshops Q&A's—sharing practical and actionable ways to improve relationships. Interviewing countless happy and unhappy married people, answering one-off questions, examining the problems and future desires, finding and studying all the gaps...
All in attempts to find the secrets, must-haves, non-negotiables to a deeply fulfilling marriage.
After lots of attempts and refinement…
We combined real data, Biblical truth, personal experience, and a fresh approach—into a clear process that helps couples heal from the past without getting stuck in it, grow as individuals, communicate with purpose, rebuild trust, and experience real connection—spiritually, emotionally, and physically.
We learned that rebuilding a relationship doesn't have to take years—with a proven process and the right support & accountability...
A roadmap paired with support & accountability...
to set them on a clear path to communication without barriers, connection without resistance, and trust without walls.
The reality is most committed married people have similar issues when it comes to their relationship…
They want to be more in love with one another than they were in the beginning—but rather than working with solutions that’ll serve them long-term—they settle, surviving off inspirational messages, and "It'll get better" advice.
They want to rise to their truer potential, together—spiritually, financially, interpersonally—but they fall to their own distractions, allowing people, circumstances, and situations to take their attention from living their most fulfilled life.
They want to feel confident in their ability to be a true example of a successful Godly marriage for their children, family, and friends—but because they’ve tried just about everything and haven’t found a better solution, they repeat their own cycles.
And after years of the same patterns, their desire for one another lessens, the joy in their home has faded, their productivity plummets—taking a physical, mental, and emotional toll on them both.
And the sad truth is…
As much as they try to overcompensate with more vacations, more day trips, and more date nights—none of it changes the tension, the silence, the stagnancy, the emptiness they come back home to when the fun feelings run out.
[No shame. We learned this personally.]
How would it feel to lock in together for a set period of time—and finally do the real work of cultivating a marriage that reflects what God intended?
To partner with a couple who’s been where you are…
Not just to encourage you, but to challenge you.
To help you break the old habits and patterns that keep pulling you backward—spiritually, emotionally, and physically.
What if this wasn’t just “marriage support,” but a strategic, faith-rooted experience that helps you reconnect, realign, and finally move forward with clarity?
Practical support.
Real accountability.
Clear steps that help you create a partnership that's no longer just surviving—but grows into a stronger purpose?
[X] Feel alone and divided in your own home.
[X] Keep up the front at church, family functions, or for the kids.
[X] Live separate lives under the same roof, sleeping in the same bed.
[X] Plan 'feel-good fixes' like trips and dates as a distraction from your issues at home.
Have communication that flows naturally— where conversations don’t spiral, and even when you disagree, there’s a steady calm. No eggshells. No tension in the air for the rest of the day. Just real conversations that go somewhere, and leave you feeling closer, not more distant.
Feel safe enough to say what’s really on your heart— without bracing for the reaction. You speak honestly, and instead of being dismissed or misunderstood, you’re met with empathy. They actually get you—and you feel it.
Be equally spiritually invested— praying together without awkwardness, growing together without dragging each other. Both of you tuned in. Making God the center of your marriage, not just a Sunday obligation.
Share your vision and be on the same page— not just about the next bill or schedule, but the bigger picture. Where you’re headed. What you’re building. And for once, you’re not the only one thinking about the future—it’s a shared mission.
Be fully open and honest about anything— whether it’s something that hurt, something you're afraid of, or something that’s been on your chest for years. No fear of starting a fight. No walking away. Just openness, met with curiosity and grace.
Experience deeper intimacy— not just physically, but emotionally. The kind where you feel drawn to each other again. Where affection isn’t forced, and connection doesn’t feel out of reach. You don’t just have sex, you feel connected again—in your spirit, not just your body.
Feel focused, inspired, and motivated— like you’re both actually on assignment. Each day has meaning again. You’re not dragging each other spiritually—you’re running together. And for once, your relationship matches the mission you know God put in your heart.
If you’re both ready to... pursue each other again, have conversations that leave you emotionally & physically aroused, enjoy a closer bond and genuine friendship beyond what you have right now…
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We have something unique we think you'll love!
Show you the specific steps to break down emotional and spiritual barriers—so peace replaces confusion, and calm becomes your new normal.
Help you take the desires you haven’t been able to name—and align them into a shared vision you can actually build together.
Guide you through the real process of creating a deeply satisfying, intimate relationship with your spouse—not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually.
Help you elevate the way you communicate in a way that invites connection, creates clarity, and helps you navigate any topic—difficult or light—with confidence.
Lead you through intentional, intimacy-inviting exercises that deepen trust, build authentic friendship, and reignite closeness in ways that last.
Help you uncover the strengths, gifts, and perspective each of you brings to the table—so you can, confidently, walk out your God-given assignment together.
Help you make your marriage a safe, sacred space where peace, passion, and progress are protected—and your relationship is never treated like an afterthought again.
But more than this…
You won’t have to trade another window into your problems in exchange for words of encouragement from anyone…
Because you’ll have a Husband & Wife Team in your corner, to coach and guide you every step of the way.
No fluff.
No generic advice about ‘active listening’ or ‘I’ statements.
And No biased, feedback or one-sided, hot-seat sessions.
But a well thought-out roadmap with step-by-step solutions and conversations that will take your marriage to the next level.
So you can completely forget about...
[X] Watching regurgitated outdated advice.
[X] Spending multiple sessions on one topic.
[X] Getting one-sided feedback.
And instead, feel confident knowing you’re walking through a proven process—one that helps you release what’s behind you (without reliving it), communicate with clarity, and build the kind of trust that leads to genuine connection and lasting intimacy.
The Cultivate Your Perfect Relationship Marriage Program is ideal for couples who feel stuck in an unfulfilling, stagnant marriage—and are ready to cultivate deeper trust, a closer connection, and grow as partners driven with purpose.
This intimate 4-month experience combines Bible-based marriage coaching with real accountability and support—delivered through private 1-on-1 couple’s sessions, individual spousal coaching, and engaging small-group workshops.
Our 3-Pillar Framework is designed to help you walk through four phases—each one guiding you through a different stage of the journey, with practical steps and spiritual alignment along the way.
A 4-phase journey helping couples overcome obstacles to cultivate authentic trust, connection, and partnership—in just four months.
helping couples overcome obstacles to cultivate authentic trust, connection, and partnership—in just four months.
PHASE 1: GAIN DEEPER UNDERSTANDING
+ ESTABLISH THE ALIGNED VISION
In this first phase, you'll go through self and collective discovery + learn how to hold space for each other so that you always feel welcome and understood.
Next in the phase, we focus on alignment in all areas. You have different desires, ideas, end goals - and being on the same page isn't enough.
In this second step, you'll follow our unique Alignment Process so you no longer feel misunderstood or live in divided, separate worlds - but share a well-understood, thoroughly-discussed, overall vision.
PHASE 2: NURTURE CONNECTION,
NEUTRALIZE DISTRACTIONS
+ UPGRADE & ELEVATE THE COMMUNICATION
Following this, we upgrade the way you communicate with one another. You'll learn exactly how to have communication that creates connection vs. division and how to have conversations that make things *crystal clear*.
Together we discuss + dissolve the past WITHOUT feeling dismissed, unheard or rejected - in a way that guides couples forward and draws them closer.
PHASE 3: INDULGE IN SOUL-HEALING CONVERSATIONS™
+ DIVE DEEPER INTO TRUST
This third phase is all about getting deep. While trust is naturally restored throughout all four phases, this is where we push for deeper, more vulnerable, emotional intimacy.
Using our unique 5-Step framework, you'll have intimate, Naked, vulnerable conversations and exercises specific to your relationship that reveal the depths of your soul and deep mind with one another.
This process naturally builds deep-rooted trust, provokes genuine friendship, and cultivates closer, more affectionate relationship environments - increasing intimacy and more pleasurable physical connection.
PHASE 4: NAVIGATE PARTNERSHIP
+ ESTABLISH RELATIONSHIP SECURITY HABITS
When it comes down to it, you're a team - it's time to truly operate like one. During this fourth phase, you'll learn the secrets, personal habits, and mindset shifts necessary to expand and increase spiritually, financially, and interpersonally towards your purpose and calling together.
And lastly in this phase, together, we coach you through making your home and relationship a sacred space, where NOTHING & NO ONE can penetrate.
Discover the habits that create lasting security in your relationship - so you’ll both always feel emotionally safe, secure, and prioritized.
PHASE 1: GAIN DEEPER UNDERSTANDING
+ ESTABLISH THE ALIGNED VISION
In this first phase, you'll go through self and collective discovery + learn how to hold space for each other so that you always feel welcome and understood.
Next in the phase, we focus on alignment in all areas. You have different desires, ideas, end goals - and being on the same page isn't enough.
In this second step, you'll follow our unique Alignment Process so you no longer feel misunderstood or live in divided, separate worlds - but share a well-understood, thoroughly-discussed, overall vision.
PHASE 2: NURTURE CONNECTION, NEUTRALIZE DISTRACTIONS
+ UPGRADE & ELEVATE THE COMMUNICATION
In this next phase, we transition into connection and communication. While connection ignites genuinely throughout all four phases - in this phase, we prioritize eliminating and replacing the habits and patterns draining connection and calling division (aka divorce traps).
Following this, we upgrade the way you communicate with one another. You'll learn exactly how to have communication that creates connection vs. division and how to have conversations that make things *crystal clear*.
Together we'll discuss + dissolve the past WITHOUT feeling dismissed, unheard or rejected - in a way that guides couples forward and draws them closer.
PHASE 3: INDULGE IN SOUL-HEALING CONVERSATIONS™
+ DIVE DEEPER INTO TRUST
This third phase is all about getting deep. While trust is naturally restored throughout all four phases, this is where we push for deeper, more vulnerable, emotional intimacy.
Using our unique 5-Step framework, you'll have intimate, Naked, vulnerable conversations and exercises specific to your relationship that reveal the depths of your soul and deep mind with one another.
This process naturally builds deep-rooted trust, provokes genuine friendship, and cultivates closer, more affectionate relationship environments - increasing intimacy and more pleasurable physical connection.
PHASE 4: NAVIGATE PARTNERSHIP
+ ESTABLISH RELATIONSHIP
SECURITY HABITS
When it comes down to it, you're a team - it's time to truly operate like one. During this fourth phase, you'll learn the secrets, personal habits, and mindset shifts necessary to expand and increase spiritually, financially, and interpersonally towards your purpose and calling together.
And lastly in this phase, together, we coach you through making your home and relationship a sacred space, where NOTHING & NO ONE can penetrate.
Discover the habits that create lasting security in your relationship - so you’ll both always feel emotionally safe, secure, and prioritized.
Discover more of who you are and who your spouse is—on a deeper emotional and spiritual level—so you can show up as your most honest, authentic selves.
Get clear on what you’re building together, and finally feel aligned in your vision, goals, and direction—as individuals and as a couple.
Learn how to communicate in ways that actually connect—so you feel understood, supported, and seen when it matters most.
Let go of the weight from the past and start moving forward together, without the lingering frustration, shutdowns, or misunderstandings.
Break down the walls that have built up between you—so trust feels real again and emotional safety becomes your new normal.
Create the kind of environment that invites closeness—where intimacy, trust, and true friendship can grow without pressure.
Use your individual strengths to work as a team—so you’re no longer pulling in opposite directions, but moving with power and unity.
Build a relationship that feels nurtured, steady, and full of life—the kind of connection you both want more of, not less.
16-Weeks of Transformative Coaching: Tailored coaching and accountability to elevate you as people while creating lasting transformation in your marriage, home, and family.
CULTIVATE Core Curriculum & Essentials: Foundational, self-paced step-by-step videos with actionable 'in-the-moment' exercises for real-time relationship upgrades—cultivating authentic connection, partnership, and trust.
Private 1-on-1 Couple's Sessions: Focused, transformative bi-weekly sessions designed to help you navigate roadblocks, break through barriers, and overcome challenges—guiding you both toward the relationship you envision.
Husband's (Spouse-Only) Power Sessions: Impactful, personalized coaching for the Husband—addressing personal obstacles, providing feedback, and offering actionable steps to step into the inspiring leader he’s meant to be in his life and home.
Wife's (Spouse-Only) Power Sessions: Empowering 1-on-1 coaching tailored for the Wife—guiding her through mental blocks and challenges, offering personalized feedback and exercises to break through limitations and embrace a renewed mindset and spirit.
Small-Group Sessions & Workshops: Intimate, monthly group workshops and opportunities for couples to build relationships with other like-minded couples during through the following:
Fellas-Only Workshops: Exclusive, monthly leadership workshops and group sessions for husbands. Connect with like-minded men, ask real questions, and get tailored guidance to strengthen your role as a husband and leader.
Ladies-Only Workshops: Exclusive, monthly virtue workshops and group sessions for wives. Connect with like-minded women, ask your most pressing questions, and receive tailored guidance to elevate your marriage and personal growth.
Couple's Community Nights: Monthly, virtual group meets for couples to enjoy interactive experiences together, like Q&A’s, Bible studies, and virtual date nights to connect, have fun, and grow together!
You go through the
4-month roadmap, getting everything above while receiving personalized coaching, unlimited support, and positive accountability.
You have our guidance available every step of the way so you can experience a long-lasting transformation.
The Cultivate Your Perfect Relationship Marriage Program is ideal for couples who feel stuck in an unfulfilling, stagnant marriage—and are ready to cultivate deeper trust, a closer connection, and grow as partners driven with purpose.
This program is a PERFECT fit for you if:
You both want more out of your relationship and out of life—you just don’t know where to start.
You’ve been married 5, 10, or even 15 years and have been consumed with family, business, or career—but you're now ready to prioritize yourselves and your relationship.
You're tired of trying all kinds of quick tips and blanket advice—you're ready follow a proven process with support and accountability as you go through it.
You've already tried traditional methods like counseling, and therapy— you're just looking for a more direct, empowering, forward-focused approach.
You want to experience true reconnection—but you want it to happen naturally and authentically without it feeling forced, fake, or transactional.
If this completely describes you and your spouse — the Cultivate Your Perfect Relationship Marriage Program is the experience for you!
✔ Enjoy communication that feels natural—and handle tension without things spiraling or shutting down.
✔ Feel fully safe in your relationship—free to say what’s on your heart and know you’ll be heard, valued, and met with love.
✔ Share the same level of commitment to growing—spiritually, personally, and together.
✔ Align your future goals—so you’re building in the same direction, with clarity and unity.
✔ Be fully open and honest with each other—comfortable letting your guard down, even in hard conversations.
✔ Experience deeper intimacy—emotionally, physically, and spiritually, without pressure or distance.
16 Weeks of Transformative Marriage & Personal Coaching
The Cultivated Core Curriculum & Essentials
(value $1,697)
Private Biweekly Couple’s 1-on-1 Marriage Coaching Sessions
(value $2,376)
Private Husband (Spouse-Only) 1-on-1 Power-Sessions
(value $788)
Private Wife (Spouse-Only) 1-on-1 Power-Sessions
(value $788)
Monthly Fellas-Only Husband’s Group Workshops
(value $508)
Monthly Ladies-Only Wives’ Group Workshops
(value $508)
Monthly Cultivated Couple's Community Nights
(value $388)
(One-time payment or choose a flexible payment plan for $3,697)
(One-time payment or choose a flexible payment plan for $3,697)
Inside, you'll uncover some of the most overlooked keys to becoming the kind of partner your spouse has been hoping for—so you can grow together with clarity, confidence, and a deeper understanding of what it means to love each other well.
Ask questions, get in-the-moment feedback, and receive real-time coaching or mediation—so you’re never stuck navigating tough moments alone.
Inside, you'll uncover some of the most overlooked keys to becoming the kind of partner your spouse has been hoping for—so you can grow together with clarity, confidence, and a deeper understanding of what it means to love each other well.
Ask questions, get in-the-moment feedback, and receive real-time coaching or mediation—so you’re never stuck navigating tough moments alone.
Enough settling. It’s time to break unhealthy patterns, rebuild your foundation, and walk in alignment with the marriage God designed for you.
Great question. Most couples invest about 2–4 hours a week, give or take. That includes a private coaching call every other week, small group sessions three times a month, and individual Spouse Power Sessions for personal support. The Curriculum is self-paced so you have flexibility to work through it on your own time, without feeling overwhelmed.
Absolutely. We designed this program with busy couples in mind—most of our clients are working full-time, raising kids, and constantly managing packed schedules. Some couples choose to watch the trainings together, while others go through them separately and come together for discussion and the couples exercises. For your private couple's coaching sessions, however, it's best to be in the same space, since these sessions are designed to help you engage in real conversations—face-to-face, with eye contact and presence—especially around the things that feel uncomfortable to bring up.
Yes. We offer flexible payment options, including extended plans and financing through Klarna and Afterpay. For couples who are ready to go all in, we do offer a significant discount through our All Chips In Package. You’re also welcome to use a credit card if that works better for your timeline. However you choose to move forward, we’ll make sure it’s a fit for your budget and your season.
We know how much it takes to show up for your marriage—and if you’re doing the work, you want to see real progress. That’s exactly why we offer our Marriage Improvement Guarantee. If you complete the full program and still feel stuck, we’ll continue working with you beyond the 4 months at no additional cost. This isn’t about quick fixes. It’s about real, lasting change—and we’re committed to walking with you until you experience it.
As soon as you enroll, everything you need is sent straight to your inbox. You’ll receive your login to the online platform where you can dive into the curriculum right away, along with links to book your first sessions and access bonus resources. You’ll get a few emails to walk you through the steps—but everything is laid out clearly so you know exactly where to start. You’ll also get immediate access to our private support chat, so if you have questions before your first call, we’re already right there with you.
You’ll have a mix of both. Private couples sessions are done together, so you can work through things side by side. You’ll also have access to weekly small-group sessions (3x a month), to connect with other couples. In addition to that, each spouse gets their own personal Spouse Power Sessions—these are your one-on-one coaching calls focused on your individual growth and support within the marriage.
We’re Tazadaq and Zakah, Certified Marriage & Relationship Coaches committed to helping ambitious couples married 5, 10, even 15 years—restore trust, deepen their connection, and build a purposeful partnership.
Early in our own marriage, we faced challenges that tested our commitment. Through faith & serious intention, we overcame those struggles and grew passionate about understanding the pillars of a fulfilling relationship.
As entrepreneurs, business owners, and parents raising a blended family of five (with children ranging from 5 to 27), we understand the complexities of balancing marriage, parenting, co-parenting, and work. We know firsthand what it takes to turn struggles into strength and create a marriage that not only survives—but flourishes.
Over the years, we’ve combined biblical wisdom, relationship research, and personal experience to develop a proven process that helps couples break through barriers, rediscover intimacy, and cultivate the marriage they deeply desire and deserve.
Our mission is simple: to help couples cultivate the marriage and relationship they’ll never want to leave. If you're ready to get serious about pouring into the future of your marriage, we’re here to help.